Version: (using KDE 4.3.2) Installed from: Ubuntu Packages The animated try icon used to indicate that you have new messages is the same icon included in 3.x series' Kopete, so it doesn't match so the new icon theme (or if the user uses another iconset)and should be updated. Maybe, it would be even better to show the number of unseen messages (ala Choqok) instead of the whole spinning icon thing. Thanks in advance.
Dear user, unfortunately Kopete is no longer maintained. Please migrate to another solution, e.g. for Jabber a possibility is Kaidan, for Matrix a candidate is NeoChat.